Dating sites emails to emails
by Jake Vandenhoff Guys are always trying to come up with the "perfect email" to send to women on dating sites.It's as if there are some "magic words" you can type in that will make any woman fall head over heels in lust with you...If they love a certain stand-up comic, use the beginning of one of their jokes (Google is your friend at times like these).Create something that’s witty and warm and demonstrates you’ve read their profile, as opposed to just flicking through their photos. Research has shown that people warm towards hearing their own name in conversation.Well, you can start by remembering these three basic rules: It’s not that “You’ve got a great smile, let’s go out sometime” is a bad opener. I read your profile and thought it was really amazing. So please look at my profile and if you like what I had to say, write back to me when you get a chance. If you’re too complimentary in that initial email, you can come off as desperate and needy. Still, the question remains: how do you say something original and flirty?Yours, Evan Every line of this message can be thrown out. Because anyone whom you contact knows by virtue of you writing to them that a) you liked their profile, b) you liked their photo and c) you’d like a reply. That, my friends, is what separates the most successful online daters from the rest of the pack. In this case, I’ve written them for men replying to women, but the steps are applicable to everyone: Every word of it.
It’s a joke and, as we all know, people like people who make them laugh. I can fix your computer, landscape your backyard and probably even hotwire your car, but, for some reason, Ti Vo programming seems to elude me as well. Playing it safe is fine, but if an attractive person has dozens, if not hundreds, of options, you need to shake things up a little bit to break through the clutter. Interesting piece, which I’ll have to parse at length when I have the time…but it leads me to throw out a theory I’ve been kicking around.As an online dating expert and coach, one of the questions I get asked frequently from women is if they should initiate contact with men online or just let the men take the initiative.We know women truly believe men love the chase and that a woman should just put up a profile (with fabulous photos and a great bio!Truth is, just like there's no perfect pick-up line that works 100% of the time at the bars, there's no perfect email that's going to attract every girl online.But luckily, you don't need perfect words to get women digging you online... In fact, most women respond better to simple, mildly humorous, and brief emails.